Best OF 2014

The Best of 2014 …..

Best Movies – Only counting the ones I have seen
1. Gone Girl
2. Fury
3. Snowpiercer
4. Noah
5. Interstellar
6. Rise of the planet of the ape
7. X-men Days of future past
8. Godzilla
9. Nymphomaniac-Vol 1 and Vol2
10. The Grand Budapest hotel
Honorable mention- 22 Jump Street, Maleficent, Guardians of the galaxy, Monuments men,
Best Actor: Ben Affleck- Gone Girl
Best Actress: Rosamund Pike-Gone Girl
Best Supporting Actor: Logan Lerman- Fury
Best Supporting Actress: Emma Watson – Noah

Worst movies
1. Interior Leather bar
2. Robocop
3. 3 Days to kill
4. The Rover
5. Pompeii

Best TV
1. Game of Thrones

Once again this is the best made show on TV and this year it jumped up three spots to take the number one spot on my list. This season was simply amazing; I was dying after every single episode the story telling along with superb acting, effects, production…ETC… Everything on this show is perfection
Best Episode: The Lion and the Rose
2. Survivor
After all these years I still love this show sooooo much … these seasons were not the best but its still one of my favorite shows.
Best Episode: Straw that broke the camel’s back.
3. How to Get away with Murder
This is the best new show of the fall HANDS DOWN…. Brilliant show. It’s better than Scandal and its way more exciting that the Walking dead. Viola Davis is amazing, if you have not seen this show please start watching.
Best episode: Kill me, Kill me, Kill me
4. Bobs Burgers
Funniest show on tv right now, amazing characters brilliant writing.
Best episode: Dawn of the Peck
5. Modern Family
Even though it has been on five years it’s still one of the best comedies on TV.
Best episode: The Long Honeymoon
6. Parks and Recreation
Sadly this will be the last year of Parks and Rec and it will be really sad to see this awesome show go.
Best Episode: Galentines Day
7. House of Cards
Amazing SHOW…
Best Episode: Chapter 26
8. The Leftovers
This show started slow and took a while to get into but the payoff way huge probably my single favorite ten minutes of tv all year are when they show the disappearances.
Best Episode: The Garveys at their best
9. Gotham
Such a great idea and a great way to make a show about such an iconic story in a new and exciting way.
Best Episode: The Balloonman
10. Veep
Best Episode: Crate
11. Girls
Best Episode: Beach House
12. Grimm
Best episode: Octopus Head
13. Project Runway
Best Episode: The Rainway
14. American Horror Story :FreakShow
Best Episode Edward Mordrake part 2
15. The Strain
Best Episode: Night Zero
16. The Amazing race
Best Episode: The Gladiators are here!
17. Master Chef
Best Episode: The Finale
18. Orphan Black
Best Episode: Ipsa Scientia Potestas Est
19. Scandal
Best Episode: Like Father, Like Daughter
20. Orange is the new Black
Best Episode: We have Manner We’re polite.
Honorable Mention
New Girl, Downton Abby, Walking Dead , Stalker , Tyrant, True Detective, Stalker , Hannibal ( have not finished it yet so I couldn’t put it on the lis)

Ten Best moments in TV (SPOILERS)- No particular order
1. Disappearances in the Leftovers
2. King Jofferys demise in Game of thrones
3. Turkey Run in Bobs Burgers
4. Who killed Sam in How to get away with Murder
5. Shoshanas drunken outburst in Girls
6. Zoe Barnes Demise on House of Cards
7. The Seven Wonders on American Horror Story
8. Selina becoming President in VEEP
9. Rick eating a man on The Walking dead
10. Miss Rosa’s last big break in Orange is the new black

Ten Best Characters – In no particular order
1. Sleina Meyers in Veep
2. Tina Belchor in Bob Burgers
3. Lily Tucker Pritchet in Modern Family
4. Bethany in the Amazing Race
5. Claire in House of Cards
6. Leslie Knope in Parks and Rec
7. Linda Belchor in Bobs Burgers
8. Analise Keating in How to get away with murder
9. Sansa Stark in Game of Thrones

10. Fish Mooney in Gotham

Special honor goes to – Elsa, Ethel and Desiree in American Horror Story (Basically anything with Jessica Lange , Kathy Bates and Angela Basset.)

Best Books ( I have read this year) In no particular order
1. Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn
2. Game of thrones by George R.R. Martin
3. The walking Dead comics
4. Dr Sleep by Stephen King
5. Carrie by Stephen King
6. The 6th Extinction by James Rollins
7. Diary of Anne Frank by Anne Drank
8. The Fault in our Stars by John Green
9. Zoo by James Patterson
10. Suffer the Children




This past year Scott, Jennifer, Conor and I all attended a little event in Juneau titled BACONFEST. We had heard about it and we thought hmmmm festival of Bacon + Bacon = we need to go to that

because anytime there is bacon being severed I want to be there

So a whole bunch of restaurants in the community will be cooking and we then get to taste it and vote on our favorite…..
Once we got in there they had snack, appetizers, mini deserts, drinks even bacon ice cream …it was like stepping into heaven. So we commandeer a small table and take turns grabbing samples and returning to the table to consume this bacon flavored treat with gusto
If I could have had one of these I would have


It was all I could do to come for air I was like a prize winning eater just shoveling food into my mouth. At some point during the evening they announced that there would be a a bacon eating contest , they had a group of women form the community who were voulunteering for this contest. Each contestant had ten pounds of bacon and they would race to see who could eat the most in a certain amount of time. Now I expected the women to look like this
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But they were normal and when the contest began most of them ate like it my poison or something to fear. They were not doing a very good job of consuming as much pork as possible.
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There was one bitch ….. I think she must have half unhinged her jaw because she just started shoveling … it was scary I was pretty sure she would complete her ten pounds and then start on the audience.
Needless to say she won and afterwards she looked alike nothing happened it was scary. None the less I was complete full and ready to puke I ate more food that Thanksgiving it was scary I loved bacon FEST

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Overall it was a super fun event and I can’t wait to go back this year 


2013 was a gay ole year


So this was a big year for me, In January I decided to accept myself for who am and stop wallowing in hatred I had been unable to accept my sexuality …EVER but for a multitude of reasons I decided it was time.


To say IM GAY


Now I know this does not come to shocker for a lost of people and most the people in my life were not all to surprised with this revelation. I was never willing to accept it an always tried to suppress these feelings. I knew that was never a super masculine guy type.

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But I also never felt I was super gay.


I Struggled with this in my head , how could I not be attracted to women because that’s was I had grown up thinking was the right thing. It was hard for me to change the way that I thought it took a long time to realize that I was not wrong for not being attracted to women it took me some time to see that I didn’t have to be this to be a gay man.


So I can be gay and be myself which is simply


Thank you to everyone in my life who has given me support and love throughout this process and has been there to love me no matter what I decide. I could not have went though this without my amazing family and loving friends and the most amazing Boyfriend anyone could ask for. Thank you for your love and support

Almost been a year … WOW

Its almost been a year since my last blog post and wow has it been a big year. Probably the biggest year of my life, I am no where near where i was emotionally, intellectually, romantically or physically. I am happier , less prone to sad and depressed moments i even feel less anxious as a whole. Its been quite the year and maybe i should share some of my stories.


So many people left this year

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So many people left this year, Andrea.. Ankita … Cathleen … Eddie …. Truitt..Mara …. and now Sara. I’m getting really sad losing all my friends this year, it means I am going to have to go out and make some new ones. To say adios to one of my best friends leaving I am making a list of some of my favorite moments and memories. Here we go crystal 

• Crystal and Kathy , love having a blast chatting it up with some gin and tonnies
• My very first apartment , with the amazing view
• Scary movies and drinks
• “If that ghost comes into my house I will kick its ass”
• Honey badger don’t care
• Inflatable palm tree
• 12 foot high ceilings
• Driving around Sitka AmeriCorps
• Team building at EVC
• “You SHALL not pass”
• Ima goin do some magic
• SHHHHH – Movie theater fight
• Red jump suit ass smack
• Agador
• Dead in the channel
• Midnight sledding

I can’t begin to list all of the wonderful memories I have from spending time with Sara , she has been one of my closest friends for the past two years l I have had the privilege of volunteering with her , Living with her and working with her . I will miss the countless hours I have spent laughing, drinking and having an amazing time. I know that I will get to see her again because she is now going to be living up in Anchorage  Hopefully we get to have some fun times in the future.

Good luck crystal I will Miss you 

May the Odds be ever in your Favor

Since I live in Juneau and it’s been about six months this means it’s time for another one of my friends to be leaving. And since bad things happen in threes I am losing Mara, Sara and Eddie. I am sad by this turn of events but oh so very happy for their futures (I jokes).
First to go will be Mara and Eddie with their little monster Fenway. They are headed back to the east coast to a job with the New Hampshire state police. I’m sad to see these three go, I have just started to get to know Eddie and have enjoyed all of time with him as a friend 🙂 Fenway gets on my nerves but I have come to love this big brute and enjoy her gentle gumming of my arm. I of course will miss Mara the most. I have had the pleasure of working with her for a year and change and getting to know her as a friend throughout this time. She is a smart, funny, headstrong person who has become very enjoyable to get to know. I will miss our bickering and bitching and our joint distaste for anyone new or weird. You have truly made the last year of my life amazing and I don’t know what I will do without my daily dose of crazy Mara. You are such an amazing person who has made me better and I will miss having you there to talk to and help me with your wisdom and strength. I am soo happy for you and for the next big adventure in your life
I hope that life brings us together again and we can have some more great times, you guys are amazing and I will miss you sooo much.

Here is your virtual going away present, a giant bag of onions reminding you both to not let the little things get you and enjoy your amazing adventure.

Don’t forget to call me, LOVE YOU BOTH

Adios Amigos and “May the odds be ever in your favor”

…. Mara you can keep all your snarky grammar comments to yourself 

Run Little Indian

Goodbye my Little Indian
It seems to be the time of year where people leave Juneau, and this week another one of my dear friends will be leaving. Ankita is headed back home for a sabbatical and then off to India for a bath in the Ganges.
To commeriate my year with Ankita I have decided to make a list of my favorite moments and memories

My first encounter with her was at work where I thought she was a client, and then chastised her for not being able to correctly hang streamers and for not eating red meat.

Ditch driving
Halloween – Richard and the Catwoman
James Bond
Getting lost on the trail and assuming we would both end up dead.
Consuming jars of olives
Little white Children
Survivor nights
Justin Beiber
Ozzy and Arundhati
Bacon for Christmas
Christmas Morning
Seatac Airport
Talking to strangers
Photo Shoot
My mothers Visit
Shoe Shopping
Her fake allergies
Her mom came to visit and tried to feed me every two hours weather iw as hungry or not and even tried to buy me a pork sandwich, a little old Indian woman buying me a pork sandwich ahahahhahaha . She did feed me some of the best fish ever 
Jumping in the Ocean
Fur Shopping
One Direction
Being there for me whenever I need to vent
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There have been so many more beautiful moments I have been blessed at having with Ankita throughout the year.
My favorite thing about Ankita is how we grew as people and friends together , we spent a long time working together and learning , growing and figuring things out about ourselves and how to do our jobs in the most productive ways . We had to deal with a lot of emotionally difficult things together and without her love and support throughout it all I don’t know if I could have navigated my way through that learning curve.
Thank you for all the joy and laughs, I love you dearly and will miss you tons.
Have Fun
Be Safe
LOVE YOU little 😉